Posts by stan livedeath

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My door intercom......

by stan livedeath in

a few minutes ago...my door intercom went...i picked up the phone...wasn't expecting anyone.. young child's voice... "were just here with this watchtower why be honest".

no thanks...byee.. what sort of message is this sending out ?

?.

stan livedeath

A few minutes ago...my door intercom went...I picked up the phone...wasn't expecting anyone.

Young child's voice..

"Were just here with this watchtower Why be honest"

No thanks...byee.

What sort of message is this sending out ??

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What is your relationship with ALCOHOL?

by nicolaou in

here in the uk new drinking guidelines have been issued which suggest "no more than 14 units a week - equivalent to six pints of beer or seven glasses of wine.".

another piece of the advice which is getting a lot of attention is that "if people drink, it should be moderately over three or more days and that some days should be alcohol-free.".

already people are making cries of "nanny state!

stan livedeath

slim--what do you do for pleasure ?

no--forget that--way too intrusive

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What is your relationship with ALCOHOL?

by nicolaou in

here in the uk new drinking guidelines have been issued which suggest "no more than 14 units a week - equivalent to six pints of beer or seven glasses of wine.".

another piece of the advice which is getting a lot of attention is that "if people drink, it should be moderately over three or more days and that some days should be alcohol-free.".

already people are making cries of "nanny state!

stan livedeath

a very few years ago my doctor calculated i drank over a hundred units a week !

i never go a night without some. i rarely ever get drunk--i hate the experience, hence--i cant remember the last time i had a hangover.

come to think of it--i cant seem to remember anything else these days.

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"Apostates " how honest are we?

by closed in

as i mentioned in another post i used to serve as an elder for 2 decades.

i was involved in a number of jc.

some i dealt with are good friends now.

stan livedeath

i am officially apostate.

i found out this exactly 35 years ago. i had quit the cult 10 years before--but my born in wife remained behind.

towards the end of 1980 i started an affaire with a friend--a married sister. she got d/f for it---but--apparently ( i wasnt there )--it was announced that i couldnt be d/f---because i wasnt a jw . however--it was announced i was an apostate!

i never knew what it meant when i found out-----till years later another dub-friend told me it meant i had joined another religion !!! as if one nut case cult wasnt enough.

so--i was an apostate--for adultery. aah well--if it makes them happy.......

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Slightly different approach - JW my tradition

by closed in

hello everybody :) i have been visiting this forum for some time.

i noticed that many can't really free from the past in the org despite many years outside of jw.

i was awaken with a bang.

stan livedeath

heres me--with my car--outside a nearby KH--can you tell where it is ?

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ex-jw-uk

by bigmac in

jw
friends

i'm quite new to this site, & have realised some members have a union jack symbol under their avatar.

i don't.. could we have a "show of hands" from any uk members?

i've already found several by reading older posts..

stan livedeath

bumped for "closed"--and any other lurkers who may be interested

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Slightly different approach - JW my tradition

by closed in

hello everybody :) i have been visiting this forum for some time.

i noticed that many can't really free from the past in the org despite many years outside of jw.

i was awaken with a bang.

stan livedeath

exjw666 I guess we are on the same island ( if the picture is your reg number).

i just saw that--i am in the UK--heres a link to more of us:

http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/topic/197364/ex-jw-uk?page=1&size=20

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Slightly different approach - JW my tradition

by closed in

hello everybody :) i have been visiting this forum for some time.

i noticed that many can't really free from the past in the org despite many years outside of jw.

i was awaken with a bang.

stan livedeath

I may be overly cautious but I had as an elder some strange experiences but it will be another topic

please share

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Are JW's allowed to have close non JW friends?

by 007DB1 in

jw
friends

i am a non-participating christian who is fully respectful of but never had anything to do with jw.. i have a jw friend who seems to closely follow his jw belief's.

i have met most of his family and friends who all are also jw's.

he says i am his only non-jw good friend.. he is getting married this year to his long time gf and with our recent growing more guarded and distant friendship, i am wondering what is going on?.

stan livedeath

007

are you male--or female ?

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Hello, this is my first post

by noralee in

jw
friends

hello, this is my first post, i would like to introduce myself and say thank you to every one on this forum, you have been a lifeline to me these last few years.. i had been a jw for 30 years when i walked away a few years ago disgusted by the treatment victims of child abuse, domestic abuse and rape receive from the wtbts.. at first i thought it was a local problem, elders personal opinions, the way they handled the situations, imperfect men etc., until i checked out jehovahs witnesses and child abuse/domestic abuse online.

that's when i realized they had the same modus operandi worldwide.

that led me here, tbuo this forum, and then to crisis of conscience, jw facts, watchtower documents, jw survey, old watchtower literature and cd s, reading a couple of steve hassans books, and more recently exiting the jw cult.. the feelings of shock, betrayal, anger at the wtbts, angry with myself for being so gullible, depression, reflection, loneliness, have taken their toll.

stan livedeath

all these new members may well help other lurkers to take the plunge !

come on guys--introduce yourselves !